This study examined longitudinally the development of self-regulation in 10
8 young children during the first 4 years of life. Children's committed com
pliance (when they eagerly embraced maternal agenda) and situational compli
ance (when they cooperated, but without a sincere commitment) were studied.
Both forms of compliance were observed in "Do" contexts, in which the moth
ers requested that the children sustain unpleasant, tedious behavior, and i
n "Don't" contexts, in which they requested that the children suppress plea
sant, attractive behavior. Children's internalization while alone in the si
milar contexts was also studied. Parallel assessments were conducted when t
he children were 14, 22, 33, and 45 months of age. At all ages, the Do cont
ext was much more challenging for children than the Don't context. Girls su
rpassed boys in committed compliance. Both forms of compliance were longitu
dinally stable, but only within a given context. Children's fearfulness and
effortful control, observed and mother reported, correlated positively wit
h committed compliance, but mostly in the Don't context. Committed, but not
situational, compliance was linked to children's internalization of matern
al rules, observed when the children were alone in the Do and Don't context
s. These links were both concurrent and longitudinal, context specific, and
significant even after controlling for maternal power assertion. There was
modest preliminary evidence that committed compliance may generalize to in
teractions with adults other than the mother.