TW is a handsome, intelligent young man who nevertheless feels like a
failure. As a teenager, he flunked out of a number of preparatory scho
ols, unable to take any interest in class and incapable of paying atte
ntion to lectures. He has a history of substance abuse and is a vetera
n of several 12-step programs. He has a tendency to feel overwhelmed.
He never seems able to direct his focus or his energy and feels this i
s due to being lazy. If he is able to see something through to the end
, inevitably it comes up short of his and others' expectations, reinfo
rcing his belief that he should not even try. He claims his biggest pr
oblem is his inability to cope with interpersonal relationships. Their
multidimensional demands give him vertigo. To manage this, he says, h
e views others in. black and white. He realizes that he does not let o
thers be who they are and laments his inability to change.