To understand fully how a woman copes with cancer, researchers must ex
amine the relational context in which a woman lives, copes, and meets
the demands of a life-threatening illness, This paper presents prelimi
nary findings of a study involving thirty-four mothers who have cancer
. Survey methods involving a questionnaire were used to look at the re
lationship of the factors of mutuality, silencing the self schemas, an
d relationship-focused coping to the psychosocial adaptation to cancer
, The findings indicated a significant correlation between silencing t
he self schemas and health care behaviors. Correlations between mutual
ity and quality of life approached statistical significance, Based on
these findings, suggestions for social work practice with cancer patie
nts and their families are made.