This study was designed to investigate whether children's goals in pee
r conflict situations are related to the strategies they propose for r
esolving conflicts and to learn how children's strategies relate to th
eir acceptance by the peer group. Fourth-through sixth-grade children
(80 boys, 62 girls) were asked about their goals and strategies in res
ponse to 12 hypothetical peer conflict situations. Results indicated t
hat children's strategies for responding to peer conflicts differed ac
cording to their goal orientation. Furthermore, children's selection o
f strategies correlated with peer acceptance, although the linkages we
re different for boys and girls. Peer acceptance was negatively relate
d to hostile/coercive strategies for girls, and negatively to adult-se
eking strategies for boys. Implications of the present findings for so
cial skills intervention are discussed.