This article locates the source of the work/family conflict in our sha
red underlying assumptions about how work must be done if one is to su
cceed. Based on a 6-month field study of engineers in a Fortune 100 co
mpany, three barriers to the successful implementation of work/family
policies and programs were identified. Examining the source of these b
arriers reveals an assumption that individuals must be present at work
to succeed. Gidden's theory of structuration is applied to explain wh
y this assumption perpetuates. The article further indicates that to a
lter this assumption will require rethinking the organization's reward
system and the recurrence of impromptu interactions that result. At t
he end, the article suggests that surfacing this and other underlying
assumptions about work has potential benefits for organizations, as we
ll as individuals.