Work and love are central social and psychological forces that structu
re and give meaning to adult life. They have been studied extensively,
usually separately, although recent at attention has been given to th
e stress related to balancing the two. Missing from the literature is
work on the more fundamental question of the, relationship or interact
ion of one domain with the, other. This article reports on the develop
ment of a technique to assess the interaction of work and love in adul
t life, and how its use with over 400 adults uncovered three distinct
patterns of interaction. Comments from respondents about the insights
gained into their lives from using the work and love form suggest that
it can be a powerful tool in counseling and educational interventions
. In particular, the instrument appears to provide a structure for the
life review.