This article explores aging and gender as dimensions of personhood in
West Bengal, India. The work of aging aging requires unravelling bodil
y and emotional ties (maya) to people, places, and things, even though
these ties feel compellingly stronger and more numerous as life progr
esses. Women differ from men in that their connections are unmade and
remade at a greater number of critical junctures in their lives, not o
nly through aging and dying, but also in marriage and widowhood. This
focus on aging and gender suggests a move beyond those models of South
Asian personhood that tend to be static, degendered, and based on too
sharp a dichotomy between East and West, to a more nuanced understand
ing of the plural and evolving nature of personhood conceptions over t
he life course.